Patsy Lesiuk鈥檚 family is asking the community to remember their kind, feisty and loving wife and mother for the way she lived.
Not for the way she died.
The stark reality, however, is that Patsy died of COVID-19 related pneumonia in the Trail hospital on March 11.
鈥淐OVID is here and it has taken a life, so we urge people to keep following protocols especially now while the vaccines try to outpace the variants,鈥� began Whitney Lesiuk, Patsy鈥檚 daughter. 鈥淲e are just wanting to inform the public by being transparent with our experience since Interior Health has been everything but.
鈥淭his is also a way for us to thank the amazing ICU team at KBRH (Kootenay Boundary Regional Hospital) for all they did to try and save her,鈥� Whitney shared.
鈥淎nd we also would like to thank everyone who helped and is still helping us through this nightmare.鈥�
Patsy鈥檚 last breath, taken that Thursday in an isolated room in intensive care, came only 16 days after she first tested positive for the virus.
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She was infected with COVID-19 on the fourth floor of Kelowna General Hospital, where she spent the third week of February for a specialist visit.
Upon her release from the Kelowna hospital on Saturday, Feb. 20, Patsy was driven back home to Warfield by her husband.
It wasn鈥檛 until two days later that a friend of Whitney鈥檚 sent her a news story about a COVID-19 outbreak at Kelowna General Hospital.
鈥淢y heart just dropped because that was the exact floor she was on,鈥� Whitney recalled.
Because Patsy was going to have to go the Trail hospital for a chemotherapy appointment later that week, the family thought it necessary she get an immediate COVID-19 test.
They waited but never received a contact tracing phone call alerting them to the exposure.
鈥淲hen I went to book my mom a test they were very reluctant,鈥� Whitney said. 鈥淚 had to fight, and explain why we were getting her tested even though she hadn鈥檛 come down with symptoms at that time. I myself had to lie and say I had a headache in order for them to test me,鈥� she added.
鈥淵ou鈥檇 think being a close contact of a COVID positive case would be enough.鈥�
Patsy tested positive on Feb. 24.
She had no symptoms except for tiredness.
鈥淥ur family was extremely careful and we are devastated she picked up COVID-19 from a place that was supposed to be safe,鈥� Whitney said.
Quarantined in the same house with Patsy were her husband and son, while Whitney quarantined in her own home.
鈥淢y dad and brother were having to keep any eye on her but were trying to protect themselves at the same time,鈥� Whitney recalled. 鈥淚 was checking in on them over the phone, especially my mom. We have a very supportive network of friends, family and co-workers who were dropping off things while we quarantined and we are so grateful for everyone鈥檚 love and support.鈥�
All the good wishes and prayers weren鈥檛 enough when it came to Patsy鈥檚 battle with this novel coronavirus.
She was hospitalized the evening of March 1 after Whitney and her family started noticing red flags such as her mom not making sense when speaking.
Once in the ICU, family was told that if Patsy got to the point of needing to be intubated, that she would be too weak for the procedure and would likely never come off life support.
She went downhill extremely fast after developing severe COVID-19 pneumonia. Requiring more and more oxygen each day, and becoming less and less responsive, Patsy鈥檚 lungs started to fail on March 9.
鈥淲e opted not to put her on a ventilator, which was the hardest decision we had to make,鈥� Whitney shared. 鈥淚f she survived the procedure of intubation, which was very unlikely, it would have only kept her breathing for maybe a few more days.鈥�
There were other serious complications brewing from both COVID-19 and from chemotherapy.
鈥淪he didn鈥檛 have a chance,鈥� Whitney said.
鈥淪o we made the decision to say goodbye to her.鈥�
The evening of March 10, a registered nurse phoned the family to tell them that Patsy had only hours left to live.
鈥淲e had to say goodbye through the window of the isolation unit using FaceTime since going in the room was risky for us and we would鈥檝e had to wait a certain amount of time until the air was 鈥榗leaned,鈥欌�� Whitney recalled. 鈥淪he didn鈥檛 have that time, once they took her off support, it only took minutes.鈥�
The nurse brought Patsy鈥檚 bed over to the window so the family could be next to her while the RN held her hand as she slipped away.
鈥淲e wanted to make sure she wasn鈥檛 alone in the end,鈥� Whitney said. 鈥淚t was the closest we could get and we are devastated but grateful that we at least got to be there in some way, realizing many families haven鈥檛 been so lucky.鈥�
The family says the ICU did all they could; that Patsy was treated with such care and compassion and the team reached out to every specialist they could.
鈥淲e want to thank them for everything they did for her, while putting themselves at risk,鈥� Whitney said.
Patsy was 65 years of age when she died.
She leaves behind her daughter Whitney and son Morgan, her high school sweetheart, husband Paul, much family and many friends.
Interior Health Patient Quality Care Office is investigating how Patsy failed to be on Kelowna鈥檚 radar.
Why wasn鈥檛 the family contacted?
And why was it so difficult for the family to get tested?
The family also wants to know why they had to advocate for Patsy every step of the way, noting the absence of information and support from Interior Health before Patsy鈥檚 family made the decision to hospitalize her.
鈥淭he whole experience was unbelievably heart wrenching and very traumatizing,鈥� Whitney said.
鈥淚 don鈥檛 think we will ever get over it.鈥�
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