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Residential school friends reunite after four decades

鈥淚t was like finding a family member,鈥 said one of the friends.
Residential school friends reunite after four decades
Four friends who went to residential school together in the 1960s - Irene Stevens

When two sisters from 亚洲天堂 Lake woke up on June 3, 2016, they were not expecting to be reunited with friends they hadn鈥檛 seen in almost 50 years.

Sisters Irene Stevens and Jean Sam went to residential school together in the 1960s at Lejac.

The hardships of residential school were made a little easier by the presence of two friends they had made - Lucille Duncan and Mystri Duncan, who are also sisters.

The four of them were close friends for almost 10 years during residential school.

Since the 亚洲天堂 Lake sisters were considerably older, they looked after the Duncan sisters.

鈥淲e looked after each other as if we were one big family,鈥 said Stevens. 鈥淲e stuck with each other all through residential school.鈥

When residential school was over, the four friends lost touch with each other.

Earlier this month, Lakes District Secondary School held a celebration for its roots of reconciliation project, which was meant to educate students about residential schools.

The four friends attended the ceremony, unaware of each other鈥檚 presence.

Lucille Duncan, who now lives in Fort St. James, said she recognized the 亚洲天堂 Lake sisters when they were dancing outside of the school.

鈥淲e were dancing to the bear clan song and I asked my sister, 鈥榠s that who I think it is?鈥欌

When they finally recognized each other, they couldn鈥檛 hold back their tears.

The first thing Stevens heard was, 鈥榃e鈥檝e been looking for you for a lifetime; you鈥檝e had a big impact on us.鈥

鈥淲e hugged each other and we cried,鈥 described Lucille. 鈥淚t was like finding a family member; we were just so happy, in tears, it was like finding our sisters again.鈥

Like many children who went to residential schools, Stevens had been forcefully taken away from her parents.

鈥淚t鈥檚 not an easy thing to forget because we were taken away from our parents and it was hard for us,鈥 she said. We didn鈥檛 know where we were going; I鈥檒l never forget the crying.鈥

When residential school was over, the trauma wasn鈥檛 left behind. The friends lost touch with each other and the hardships of residential school had impacts throughout their lives.

鈥淭he damage that was done to me was passed on to my children and I feel really bad,鈥 said Stevens. 鈥淚 even see this anger and hurt in my grandchildren; I have great-grandchildrem coming and it鈥檚 hard for me to deal with that.鈥

When they finally reunited, Stevens asked her friends if they had been going through the same hardships that she had.

鈥淲e were finding it hard to cope with everyday life, and when we saw them we asked them if they were going through the same thing... they just burst into tears,鈥 she said.

鈥淭hey didn鈥檛 have to say a word.. we knew.鈥

Stevens said the four friends walked out of Lakes District Secondary School holding hands.

 

 





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